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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a very active career until my oldest of three entered MS. We had just moved to a new state and I was worried that they were entering a critical age of independence and being influenced by other kids who might get them in trouble. So I took a break to stay close to home and I found a part time job that I enjoyed but gave me the time to be around before and after school. My kids are now adults and they have turned out great. They may have gotten there on their own but I’m very happy with the decision I made. Thankfully my husband had a very good job so money wasn’t a big issue. When my youngest was about to head to college I went back to full time for a few more years just to put more money away for retirement. [/quote]

Good advice. I you both have super demanding jobs, something may have to give in the elementary school years, but if one of you has flexibility, remote work, or a true 9-5 type situation (with short commute), there is no need to cut back in elementary school. The logistics and parenting work IMO become harder once they start middle school, so I would suggest cutting back then, rather than in K, as much as it may seem like it will be easier when they are older. The elementary years are really a sweet spot once you go through all the phases! Once you have a safe teen driver, it becomes easier again to ramp back up, if you want.   [/quote]

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