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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have to say, from the perspective of a guy in his 40's who is tall and makes a good salary (since that's important here) that PP with the list for men doesn't sound that bad.

I'm happily married but if something happened about the only off-putting thing is the part about spending on her kids.  If she makes as much as she claims she should be able to do that herself.  Also the Doordash thing...I might go get the food myself but I'm careful financially and refuse to pay Doordash fees on top of everything else.[/quote]

I mean, why on earth should he support her kids or Doordash her food? The entitlement is staggering, and I'm a woman. [/quote]

He's not paying my mortgage or funding my kids' college tuition, so I don't see it as supporting them.

A long time ago, I was having a rough day, I mentioned it to the guy I was seeing when we were texting, and he immediately DoorDashed my kids and me dinner. I liked it, so now it's a standard for the men I date.

I don't say upfront "hey, you need to buy us dinner". But when I'm dating multiple guys, I'll mention when I'm having a rough day and see who steps it up. That's who I continue dating. And why not? I have multiple options, I'm going to pick the best one.

Too many women settle for scraps from men. The higher your standards, the more they respect you and rise to those standards.[/quote]

What you are describing is not high standards.[/quote]

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