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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would tell them that there was definitely hope for us to get back together if he moved back to our state and got counseling.

I would have him move back to your state get extreme counseling. As soon as he had enough counseling to reunite him and the child, I would say if he could learn to be a better father to your child that you might get back together.

A minimum of a year of therapy for himself and then a following year of him being a good father to your child that would be two full years of him being away from the affair partner and in counseling I would tell them that then I could get back together.

And then I would never get back together with him at all, but I would have tricked him into getting therapy and being a good father.

And if you think I haven’t done something similar to my ex you’re wrong.

He did four years of therapy and he’s turned out to be a wonderful person a great father and he has a really nice new girlfriend. I wouldn’t change it for anything.[/quote]

If he wanted to do that, he absolutely could. His mother died and his dad has broken his hip 3 times and is in a nursing home. He barely showed up for his mom’s funeral and his dad is extremely ill. He doesn’t care.

I never would have married a man who treated his family like this. I do not know what changed for him, and why he treats people like this now. It’s really scary.

Women need to watch out, don’t ever become dependent on a man and give up your career and income earning abilities. 
Thanks, everyone.[/quote]

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