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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my exh regrets it.

Attempted hoovering (starting about a year or so after the D, which got shut down) after moving on with lightning speed. Partnered up so fast that most people (family, friends, kids) realized, without me saying a word, that he was the one who wanted out even though I filed.

I miss being partnered but my standards are higher now. I'm aging backwards (which helps, not going to lie, ha), kids are great, $ is solid.

I filed to set him free, but ended up setting myself free in ways that I couldn't imagine.[/quote]

You’re not aging backwards.   Sorry to break the news to you.  [/quote]

I'm a different poster.  Some people age backwards after divorce.  I did. I felt more energetic.  I lost weight. I looked better.  Do I have a little more grey hair? Yes.  Am I closer to retirement? Yes. But I'm more athletic, my clothes fit better, I do more fun things, and I feel better.

I don't regret my divorce at all. I admit I'm sad my marriage didn't work out but my spouse fell out of love with me and lost all attraction to me. I'm glad I got out. [/quote]

Do you worry at all that if you had made the effort while you were still married that it would’ve made a difference?[/quote]

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