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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The one negative thing I will say about the surrogate is this: No one goes into COMMERCIAL surrogacy with a plan to pay off their student loans just because "Oh I saw my friend have a hard time conceiving and I want to help people." If she were doing this from the goodness of her heart she wouldn't have taken the shady "reimbursements." It's not like she was a broke single mom. She is very easily findable and she has a job that pays well in a low cost of living area. So, let's just call a spade a spade, she wanted to make money.

That being said, yeah, Cindy Bi is mentally ill and a nightmare of a human being. [/quote]

But the surrogate didn't promise to do this from the goodness of her heart.  It's expensive to be pregnant, it wears on your body and it's risky. [b] The article said clearly that the woman did this to pay off student loans [/b]and build a nest egg of savings as a single mother.  Instead she is now saddled with hundreds of thousands in medical bills, because crazy Intended parent lady said she commited fraud as a surrogate, and her insurance refused to pay.[/quote]
Yes, I know it said that, that's why I mentioned that in my post. I was referring to this:

[quote]As she put it in a Facebook post, she wanted to give them “the same love I found in becoming a mom.”[/quote]

Just say you want the money for student loans.[/quote]

Both things can be true.  It could be that she did it 90% for the money, and 10% to give someone the joy of having a kid.  That doesn't invalidate that she wanted the parents who couldn't carry a child to have one. [/quote]

The manipulative “help a sad family” narrative is something these agencies really push. It stops surrogates from actually calculating the cost and also makes it distasteful for them to bargain. It is so incredibly gross, cynical, snd exploitative. [/quote]

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