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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They do because they are struggling to find quality men. When women want something they are on a mission. So it's to their benefits that men don't give up on dating. Women aren't going to admit it, but the vast majority are compromising big time on the person they are currently dating. When 10 women have at most 5 quality guys to pick from clearly most will end up with their options #3 or #4. This is why you see all these threads that have common themes about their bfs/fiancees/husbands [/quote]

If the women were higher quality themselves, they wouldn't be struggling to find a man. Some of us had no problems finding one[/quote]

This! Many high quality men do not want women that have taken on masculine characteristics pushed by angry feminism. They also find what women are currently doing to their bodies is gross. Botox, duck lips, fillers, ass implants. Women don't even look like women anymore.
These women act like when looking for a man, they are shopping on the clearance rack but they fail to understand that they are also on the clearance rack.[/quote]

Imagine you have 10 men and 10 women ranked 1-10 for each sex.  Woman #5, an average woman, will want man #2, who will sleep with her.  She will reject man #5, who is her match and complain about the lack of quality.  She can get sex from a man she likes but not a relationship, and she is incapable of understanding why.

Most of my girlfriends ended up marrying men most here would consider "high value."  [b]Most of us do not have significant careers and support our husbands and our families.  Back when we were all single, our husbands had lots of choices.  Our friends who were focused on their careers are far more likely to be divorced or never married.  Those who married had fewer children[/b].  It's wild to see how a few of us who had 3-4 kids had more kids than a dozen of our peers put together.

This won't change anytime soon because women evolved to be picky.  [/quote]

Holy smug, lady.  Come back and talk to us when those friends with no meaningful careers DHs start having affairs with younger prettier things, and they either have to live with it or divorce under massive financial burden.  [/quote]

Most of us have been married 15-18 years without a single affair and one divorce (to the only childless couple).  Most of the husbands attended a well-known graduate school and have great careers. Just because you have surrounded yourself with degenerate men (and the women they attract), it does not mean the rest of us have the same problems.  Some of us are thriving in mostly traditional relationships.

I agree with the women here who lament the lack of good men.  It's hard out there!  However, I watched many of those same women excoriate the Princeton mom years ago who said Princeton girls should marry Princeton guys and look for them in college.  We women have not been helping ourselves by ignoring the tradeoffs we face in the modern dating market.  [/quote]

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