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Reply to "fighting w/SO--is this normal or ok?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder if there are generational differences between the 1) Not normal not right but some grew up with it and can work towards not doing it and 2) Not normal not right break up/divorce/ those people have other bad stuff too Responses? [/quote] I don’t think it’s a generational thing. I think a number of people who regularly post in this forum have been victims of trauma and domestic abuse, and consequently they are unable to tolerate anything but the most mild conflict. [/quote] I think this is a good theory. I’ve noticed this in other areas. A lot of the posters here seem to be ‘egg shell’ types who cannot tolerate conflict and who seem quite anxious. Probably what draws people here - a safe outlet for expression of negative feelings. [/quote] I'm a lawyer who lives in a world of conflict. I certainly know how to handle it. I don't yell at my spouse or call them names. [/quote]
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