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[quote=Anonymous]You have to learn not to let it bother you when others are upset. This last minute trip doesn’t work for you. You have plans AND others have made travel plans with you. You aren’t going to dump them and cancel everything to accommodate a clueless idiot.

Who cares if he is trying to turn father in law into his flying monkey. Ignore!

Stop trying to justify! You don’t need to do this. In fact you make it worse. The more you say oooh we would do it if only we didn’t have X planned..then the more they feel they can argue X isn’t as important.

It’s fine to say oh I wish it wasn’t so last minute! We never imagined after years of dating you would just spring a last minute announcement! Or make a joke..hey, are you sure you didn’t plan this months ago, most people declined so now we are getting a B list invite? You could swing the crappy behavior back on them..gee FIL it’s pretty clear that they either don’t want us there or don’t care because who in their right mind invites someone to a wedding in Australia in just a few weeks.

Honestly, this may be it. If BIL is cheap he probably doesn’t want to pay for a big wedding. Doing it last minute cuts down the guest list. [/quote]

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