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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Come on now. I wouldn't have sex if she was in PAIN!!!! Sheesh. We've had sex twice since #2 arrived. Both times were painless! [/quote]

Sorry, OP.  I just don't believe this.  About 90% of women I know had significant discomfort - even if not PAIN with capital letters - the first times they had sex after childbirth, and certainly if the sex is within the first 2-3 mos.  (And I'm betting I've talked to about 2 dozen more ladies about this than you.)  Either your DW doesn't feel like she can communicate this to you or you aren't willing to listen .  "Painless"??? Whatever.  You guys have serious issues.[/quote]

Exactly.  Did she actually tell you that or did you just assume because she didn't say anything?

I am a DW and sex changed completely for me.  Positions and things that used to feel great hurt like hell - INTERNALLY.  My OB told me it has to do with changes in the position of your cervix after childbirth, which can sometimes be permanent.  3.5 years out from childbirth things haven't changed much and the range of what feels good to me is dramatically limited.  So yeah, I'm just not into it as much as I used to be.  Thankfully my DH is more understanding than you, I can be open with him about this stuff, he is very sensitive about modifying what we do, and has accepted that we will not be getting it on as often as we did before children.  [/quote]

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