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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here . . .I think she had some doubts going into the marriage but she didn’t trust herself to know what love was supposed to feel like. She loved her DH like a friend, but that was it, but she didn’t know better.[/quote]

She was immature when she got married and I suspect she's immature now.  She doesn't know what she wants other than not to come second to the job.  I get the last part, but why change now?  [/quote]
Maybe because she’s not dead yet and still wants to live some of her life the way SHE wants? Jfc there’s a lot of people telling a very unhappy person to stay with the person making them unhappy. I don’t get it. We get one life. If she’s sick of being treated like an indentured servant she should take her half and go live her life.[/quote]

Oh please.   She chose to marry someone she wasn't in love with and then have kids with him.   This life isn't a surprise to her, she's just regretting her own choices.   So she should completely disrupt her kids lives because "My b!   I should have married for LOVE.  I only have one life to live!!!!".  [/quote]

The most "in-love" adults I've ever seen were in a 2nd marriage.  They were nearly teenager-esque.  Right down to walking with hands in each others' back pockets.  (They met a year or two after their respective divorces.)

Their blended family was a total nightmare.  Marriage lasted only about 2 years.  Relationship maybe 3.[/quote]

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