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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get that a person might want to insist on an STD test prior to wanting to be sexually intimate with a new partner because that could impact their own health. The rest of sexual history is simply none of your business and people who insist on having it are just deeply insecure. To be upset about this after 13 years of marriage is dumb.[/quote]

Why do you get to determine what matters or does not matter to someone else?

I agree with you that people are insecure. So what?  Everybody has irrational partner insecurities (height, income, weight, profession, etc.). If something matters to one person, who am I to say it should not matter to them?

Everybody has their own standards.  Policing those standards is just silly. To be clear, men and women are free to sleep with whoever they want. And others are free to care about what they care about in a mate. [/quote]

You can care about whatever you want. It still doesn't mean that my past is any of your business. I'm sure you can find someone who will share your values.

I do get to have an opinion about your insecurities the same way you get to have an opinion about me.[/quote]

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