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[quote=Anonymous]OP,

You are pissed at him because his life has not changed. And you are supremely hormonal.  You sweet child, by becoming a parent, your life and your husband's life has forever changed.  It will never be exactly the same. The old life is gone.

Right now, you have to throw money at the problem and remember that this will be the solution for some time.  Send your laundry out, buy prepared meals, get your groceries delivered, hire a night nurse so you can sleep, have a cleaning lady come and clean your house.

Don't use the "D" world if he there is no addiction, abuse or adultery in the marriage.  What you are going through is a normal reaction.  That is why in the Asian culture, mom and child are not left alone for a minute for at least 40 days. The postpartum help (ideally two people looking after mom and child) ends at 40 days, but for the first year, many support for the first 40 days - cleaning, cooking, laundry, childcare for older kids, grocery shopping - are left in place.

Both of you are educated people so I am sure you can solve this problem. It is really an expense, not a problem.  [/quote]

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