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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What you planned before the baby came was probably well intended but naive. Then reality of him working, you home, each with different timing and stresses hit. Your little plan didn't work. Time to draw on experiences and revise the plan. Throw money at some problems. If he can't do chores and be good at work and keep the salary and benefits coming in, outsource some stuff and reallocate who does what. If you are too overwhelmed with baby and physical recovery get some hired hands to do stuff and reallocate who does what. If you divorce you will have fewer resources and it's biting off your nose to spite your face. [/quote] I feel like I’m doing it all. No help. We should be doing it as a team. I know it won’t always be 50/50 but I shouldn’t have to assume all of the parenting because he’s too tired after work. I’m tired but I manage to care for our child who eats every dang 1.5-2 hours around the clock, care for myself, and still cook dinner on the days he isn’t home because he won’t do it. I keep on top of the laundry and all the other things that need to be done because it needs to be done. I feel like I’m parenting solo and that was never the plan. [/quote] Why. Are. You. Cooking. Dinner?!?[/quote]
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