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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your mother was poor, would that change your opinion? Take the money (donated) out of the equation. Would you have less resentment? If the answer is yes, then focus on why HER money has such importance to you. Trust me, she knows you are resentful. That's not easy on her either. Just as it isn't easy on you having her living in your home. I don't really have good advice to give you. Other than I just suddenly lost an immediate family member (who was a difficult person) and my heart is broken. I wish I could bring them back, flaws and all, with this newfound understanding of what a hole they would leave in my life. [/quote] She donated her money while still alive and clearly expects OP to pick up the slack. Just NO! No wonder OP is resentful. She should be. Why should she give up her own home, financial security, and peace of mind to care for someone who expected it so much that she would think of others before her kids?[/quote]
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