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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have long felt this way too, OP. But as I've seen people in marriages negotiate these matters, I've begun to see that sometimes things are more gray than black and white. Lots of spouses are emotionally abusive or manipulative. They do their best to destroy their spouse's self-esteem. They pull a bait and switch once they get a ring on their finger. They use sex as a carrot to extract things that were never on the able when they decided to get married. If their spouse steps out on them after several years of a dead bedroom and negative vibes at home, does their spouse deserve punishment for cheating? Or do they deserve praise for being willing to keep tolerating/carrying their jerk spouse? [/quote]

This. Not always black and white. He said she said. If you don’t wanna be married, then move on if somebody cheated on you and you wanted a divorce get a divorce. It’s not that hard.[/quote]

Pot calling kettle?  If you want to cheat, just get a divorce, it’s not that hard. [/quote]

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