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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my husband has a lot of responsibility for how I feel about my body.  He is literally the only person who sees me naked and the only person who can make explicit sexual comments about my body.  
If DH wasn’t constantly telling me that he likes my body, that he wants to see me wearing xyz, and that he likes one body part or another, then all of my thoughts about my body would be from inside my own head or from my mom.  And those are both terrible.  [/quote]

You really need to work on that voice in your head.[/quote]

I’m okay, really.  Terrible was probably a strong word to use.  But the reality is that I’m an overweight middle aged mom.  I’m not winning any beauty pageants.

It’s just that DH tells me something that he finds attractive about me pretty much every time I see him, so multiple times a day.  If I’m going to the gym, he will tell me that he likes my hair in a ponytail so my neck is exposed.  If I’m getting home from the gym, he will say that I look good all flushed like that.  If I’m in taking the kids to the pool in my middle aged mom tankini, he will say that my butt looks good.   If I go in my high waisted bikini, he will wolf whistle and ask if I need help putting sunscreen on.  Like touching the torso of his wife of twenty years is super hot and somewhat forbidden.

You might say that men can’t help their wives with body image issues, but they definitely can.   
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I think I will be single for the foreseeable future if that's the bare minimum we need to do as men. Seriously why do you need me to keep telling you you are still beautiful and multiple times a day. Hey good for you though. Are all married men like this? Wow [/quote]

I don't need you to TELL me. I need you to believe it, live it, show it. If you don't believe it, can't live it, can't even pretend it for show... yes, good idea on staying single.

And I can't say about all married men. I CAN say that once I found one, I stopped looking. [/quote]
Np. Very hard for me to “believe” or “pretend” you are “beautiful” when you are fat. [/quote]

And yet, you want to have sex with her, i.e. you desire her - so make her feel desired?  We don’t want to be lied to, that’s the point.  But there’s something you like, so let her know what it is.  If it’s really just the warm hole, do us all a favor and just get a doll.  [/quote]
Just because a husband wants to have sex with his wife, doesn’t mean that he finds her desirable. When you are married, you have no choice but to have sex with your spouse only. [/quote]

And if you don't have sex, you die?[/quote]

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