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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Love how some here have the only options to allow drugs in house or the ADULT offspring is homeless. [/quote]

Adult home from college: Hi, Mom. Here’s my laundry. What’s for dinner? I’m home from college! 
[adult home from college lights up to smoke in house]
Parent: Hey, no smoking in house, rules haven’t changed since you’ve been at college.
Adult home from college: Lighten up, I’m an adult now. Oh and wake me tomorrow at noon, I’m meeting friends for lunch. I’ll need cash.
[parent hands over cash, does laundry, makes dinner, sets reminder to wake at noon and says nothing more about smoking so adult home from college won’t end up homeless]
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You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts. [/quote]

This is how it goes with my stepkids coming home from college, and now, when they visit post-college. DH does their laundry, Venmoes to reimburse them when they go out to eat during their stay, picks up after their dirty dishes that they leave out, once lent out my car for them to take to a party where they were drinking (his car is too nice afterall), ignored a vape and pot brought into the house (blamed it on our nanny, even though this only ever happend when they were here), and didn't protest them coming in loudly at 2 in the morning even though we had very young kids at home.  I know, because I'm a stepmom, I'm evil for even feeling anger and resentment over how it went down.  Now, when they visit over the holidays, my kids and I leave for my family's vacation home.  Out of sight, out of mind. Therapy helped me realize that all of my anger goes to DH for being an absolute s*** spouse whenever they are here, so I leave now. [/quote]

Take it up with him. We don't care or need to know about your shitty marriage.[/quote]

PP directly refuted the statement, "You're an idiot. No one, absolutely no one, is saying anything of the sorts" by sharing how her DH is saying precisely that. [/quote]

No she didn't. Before she went on that rant no one was, in fact, saying any of that. Are you really that dumb?[/quote]

Clearly, you are projecting. You made an overbroad, absolutist statement, and when someone refuted it with direct evidence, your only response is a cheap ad hominem. [/quote]

OK you really are that dumb. Please post where someone in THIS THREAD (I think that was plainly obvious to everyone but you) said anything of the sorts before PPs unhinged rant about her husband. Please post your "evidence." [/quote]

It was covered by PP in her original response.  The only one who seems unhinged is you, and you are resorting to all caps, ad hominem attacks, and projections in response.   [/quote]

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