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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]8 figures is a ton, even split in half. I would give to both equally. The only time I say otherwise is in the case of severe disability where the adult child needs lifelong caregiving. [/quote] +1 You want BOTH kids to know and believe that you loved them equally. Otherwise, you will create anger and resentment in them. Also, put the money in trust for each specific purpose - eg - each grandkid gets 4 yrs of instate college tuition to be handed at the time of college admission. My parents gave equally to all three siblings. That is the reason that a great love for our family of origin remains in our hearts. [/quote]
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