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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry OP. If you have it in you, consider that she is also suffering deeply and possibly has been for a while—not because of anything you did but because she didn’t know what to do. I know I will get flamed for saying this but it’s the truth. She probably loves you and the family very much and agonizes over the future. I really wish I didn’t have the life experience to understand this, and I was certainly once in the camp most DCUM posters rightly belong to, and who will tell you that only a selfish person can do something like this.

I have no idea whether you two can start over but I don’t think the adage “once a cheater, always a cheater” is true, certainly not always.

Wishing your whole family a way out of this with as little pain as possible.[/quote]

WTF. You think the wife is suffering deeply having an affair??[/quote]

Yes! Multiple things and feelings can be true at once. Apply the analysis to all of the crazy or unwise or dumb or mean small decisions that you make regularly. Then multiply it out to this colossally bad decision. [/quote]

Yep!  She's probably mourning all of the things her DH did that pushed her into the affair, wishing her DH had made different choices.[/quote]

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