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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have experience with this as the kid who was left out.

If you leave them out and your other children are invited, there are ramifications. From there on out, they are correct to be bitter about you.

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What is their responsibility to be respectful? Is it ok to announce you only came on the trip because “it’s free”, etc? [/quote]

These are just words. They don't have as much weight as rejecting a young adult. Why has this person not succeeded? If their cognitive reasoning isn't great, then it stands to reason that they would also blurt out hurtful stuff without thinking. They will probably not change, but do they actually hate you, OP? Probably not.
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True. I can get over the rude comments directed toward the parents. 
The most upsetting thing they did was being really mean to a sibling. Not going to post the details, but it was mean spirited and ended up with older sibling in tears. [b]This child tends to be an instigator and likes to poke people. [/b][/quote]
Yeah, you scapegoat this child.  You view them as the problem in the family.  [/quote]

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