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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I co-own a second home and am writing from that perspective. OP, I'd encourage you to look 3-5 years into the future and really consider what is likely to change and what is not likely to change. Based on everything you've shared, the uncle and his family - and how they use the home and fund their use - is not going to change. Your husband can try to force things, but that seems unlikely and like it is going to cause frustration on both sides. This is a long-standing pattern and he's an old man. You will ruin the relationships by digging in. You either need to love the house and what having access to it means to your family enough to let ALLLLL of that go. Or you need to accept that your family's relationship to the house was bound by a time and circumstance that is now over. And take steps for uncle to buy you out.[/quote] This![/quote]
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