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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in this camp: anyone can ask anything of anyone. I will never judge the act of asking. But I say no without any hesitation. No hesitation at all. And I rely on them to accept the no and not have the no affect our friendship. If I say no, I have no obligation to figure out another way for them to solve their problem. The worst is to say yes to a favor and then resent the person for asking. That's not being authentic. And that's insulting the person that asked because you have assumed they wouldn't accept your no with grace. You're insulting them and resenting them at the same time.[/quote]
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