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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are your kids? I would just feel used honestly. [/quote]
+1  it's rapey to have sex when you don't want it.[/quote]
No it’s not. Not in a marriage [/quote]
Marital rape is a thing babe. [/quote]
There’s no rape in op’s marriage.[/quote]
Yet it still exists! Even if you try to deny it, rape does happen in marriage and no it’s not ok.[/quote]
Rape is never ok. However there’s no rape in this situation [/quote]
having sex when you don't feel like it because the other person wants you to is rapey.[/quote]
Its not rape unless someone is forcing them. Op is having sex out of her free will.[/quote]
Having sex when you don't feel like it is rapey, not that it's rape. It's still gross.  It's transactional.[/quote]

Let’s go with “transactional” for a moment, but view it through a different lens:

say one partner decides on less s*x; when you reach 11 or fewer instances of s*x per 12 months, you’re now in a s*xless marriage.  Your “transactional” (or lack of it) imposes this on the other person.

Denial of affection/s*x is a form of emotional abuse.

If you deny sex completely, then you have forced your partner into becoming an asexual; that is literally the “A” in LGTBQIA+.  In other words, you have forced them unwillingly to flip their sexual orientation 180 degrees against their will.  How is THAT not also “gross” as you put it, PP ?[/quote]
That’s a lot of words to say you demand access to your partners body. #rapey[/quote]

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