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Reply to "People who loved their partners/spouses but cheated anyway"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Had intense chemistry with someone from work. Was in a years long rut with my spouse at home, very little sexual touch (like 4x a year or less, for years). It was a series of small steps that lead to sex/affair. It doesn't diminish my love for my spouse but that had become platonic and I was resentful from it. It was years ago, never caught, thankfully. [/quote] It completely diminishes your love. You were dishonest. Your rut was at lest in part of you, as you managed to get out of a rut for else. You took time and effort away from your marriage for someone else and don’t even seem to have any regret and are only thankful you didn’t get caught. The number of you who find all this acceptable and still call what you have for you spouse as “love” as is actually completely nauseating . What you have is complacency and selfishness to not involve your spouse in the life you agreed upon WITH THEM[/quote]
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