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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know people (30 plus) whose parents are paying for their down payment, co signing mortgages, paying for their grandkids braces, daycare, vacations, ivf, co signing on cars etc. a lot of these people would never admit to how much parental help they are getting despite having “good” jobs. [/quote]

Yup, that’s the reality of living in any large metro area with lots of wealth. As a young adult trying to make my way through life I’ve run into a number of people where it was extremely obvious they had some kind of significant help from relatives.[b] They were usually pretty reluctant to admit this but sometimes there’s no denying it like when someone buys a $1.5M house at 25 with less than a year of work experience and a single income that’s probably $150k at most. [/b][/quote]

Curious how you would want them to tell you this? Like what do you mean 'admit it'?

I can buy much more real estate than my income allows due to family help so I am curious at what point I explain this to people? I don't mind people knowing at all, but it seems awkward to bring it up when nobody asks specifically. [/quote]

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