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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you can’t fix your sibling’s relationship with your parents or the situation you were both in as children. Your sibling should not be blaming your for your parents’ actions.

That said, it sounds like you are only just now realizing that you were the favored child - “in hindsight.” So you were oblivious or ignored your sister’s feelings and the effect it had on your relationship after years of her feeling that way. And now your answer is to “let” her shoulder most of the burden of taking care of your parents and carrying out family responsibilities.

You need to let her know you now, after many years, see how unequal things were when you were kids. And you need to try to make things more equal going forward - including taking on half of the family responsibilities. She shouldn’t have to keep trying to prove she is just as good as you. 
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Just because her sister says things were unequal doesn’t make it true.

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It's true for her sister.  Everyone has an interpretation of what happened.  It's arrogant to think yours is the "right" one.[/quote]

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