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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've done both. I've drunk every night, and I've drunk only when going out socially. Honestly the latter is more fun. Doing it every night at home by yourself is not that fun. And having a lower tolerance is more fun. Last night I drank one beer at a soccer game while chatting with friends and I had a nice little buzz.

My ex drinks 5 drinks, give or take, almost every night. It's not attractive and it's not fun. He's 46 years old and he never grew up. He puts no thought into his health, physical or otherwise. He never thinks, do I have healthy coping mechanisms? What can I do other than drink? Is alcohol a crutch? Is this a good example for my kids?

When I stopped drinking at home every night (a habit that solidified during COVID), I realized that I just wanted a little pop of sugar. So now I have a Poppi instead. It gives my brain that same, "Ah, I'm rewarding myself at the end of a long day" feeling.[/quote]

Yup. Booze isn’t the great evil but i feel like you reach a point and it’s just like “really… you’re still drinking?” And people who still party are just … sad.[/quote]

Drinking and partying are two different things.  Having a glass of wine with dinner every day isn’t clubbing.[/quote]

And normals have a really strange view of alcoholism.  Alcoholics don’t drink to party or be young.  Almost all drink to numb out emotions, pain and trauma.  Not all of us look like that bum passed out on a sidewalk, but emotionally we might as well be.  [/quote]

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