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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why you were so badly insulted and why you are considering ending the relationship. I feel like I am missing something.[/quote]

He makes a lot more money than I do. He has thrown that in my face many times with little insults as jokes.

First time I told him I would treat for dinner but he wanted a fancy steak. He told me don’t worry and he would pay the cost because be knows I can’t afford expensive dinners.

We went on a vacation and he chose a very expensive package. He paid for me because he knew I couldn’t afford it.

He seems to like letting me know that I can’t afford things but he can. [/quote]
Op, you don’t have to listen to the people who don’t understand why you’re upset. This seems like an ongoing pattern of disrespectful behaviour. If it bothers you, it bothers you! No one else’s opinion matters. Everyone can tell when these “jokes” are at their own expense and not actually “jokes”, don’t let anon internet strangers gaslight you into second guessing your lived experiences.

Have you talked to him about these comments? Do you tell him it hurts your feelings that he tries to belittle your earnings and career? IMO this all sounds like a horrible set up and I’d stay away from it with a 10’ pole. You don’t have to break up, but definitely do not move in and commit to paying his mortgage. [/quote]

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