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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still am not really understanding the financial picture here- you could afford private school and travel sports but not college? And you think your wife can easily make enough to be of help with college expenses after 15 years out of the workforce? Did you lose your health insurance or what have you been doing for insurance up until now?

Both of you have had it fairly easy all these years (she has, and so have you) - with the luxury of a stay at home parent. And you both overspent $ during this time, it seems.

When you are married, this type of stuff is the fault of BOTH of you.

Your wife should find a job working more than 10 hours/wk yes. And she should stop the overdramatics about you “ruining her life”. But she probably will not be making a lot of money and it isn’t going to change your financial situation much. You both need to discuss budgeting and cutting back on frivolous expenses (along with her working).

marriage counseling would probably be of help. [/quote]
The wife can get a job at costco making like $45K. That will help pay for college a bit.

She is being dramatic and spoiled.[/quote]

He can get part time hours at Costco if they’re having cash flow issues so severe that one of them needs to do physical labor.  This is why people are asking OP what kind of job he expects his spouse to take.

But this is probably a troll.[/quote]
Why do people constantly expect men to work 2 jobs while the wife sits on her ass? Wtf[/quote]

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