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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you actually want? “Her to want it” is probably not achievable, at least not in the short term. Her to think it’s a problem that she doesn’t want it? [b]Her to do it even if she doesn’t want it?[/b][/quote]

- the OP already clarified his wife does engage in s*x with him.  But she has never ever had an “O” and it sounds like maybe the only reason she submits to it is she knows it’s normal for married couples and she wants to make him happy.

[b]OP is concerned with her happiness / satisfaction.  Why are some of you trying to make him out as the bad guy here?  Is it because maybe you hate all men or something? [/b]

To me, it just sounds like a long-term sexual mismatch.  And remember, plenty of women on DCUM complain about disinterested husbands.  This issue can and does go both ways you know.[/quote]

Just one opinion here but I think because it’s not really about her.  She’s fine with the status quo.  HE wants her to want it.  I get it, sex is more fun when you’re both into it, it feels good to be desired, someone who is into it may be more adventurous and engaged rather than starfish… so I know why he wants her to enjoy it, but it is still about what he wants. [/quote]

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