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[quote=Anonymous][quote]NP here. I haven't read more than just the first page of this thread, but I also don't understand women who find themselves in this situation. Unless you husband changed after you had a child, then you just need to stop whining and moaning and deal with it.[/quote]

Everything changes after having kids. I fall into both categories and it really is having kids that makes these things bigger issues.  My DH isn't lazy but he is not high energy or organized enough to keep up with all the stuff that needs to get done. I used to work 80-90 hours a week before kids and now I only work about 45-50 (with 10 hours being on-line at home) but now I have absolutely no down time or time for any of my previous pursuits or social activities that I did when I was single working 80-90 weeks.

People want the best for their kids and there is much more stress to be able to stay in a neighborhood filled with kids and a good school, be able to save for college, and save for retirement so that you don't become a burden to your kids. If I was single I wouldn't give a crap about living in small apartment, not having a maintained safe car, visiting relatives across the country, eating healthy food or all the stuff that I spend money on or save towards. [/quote]

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