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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Different strokes for different folks.[/quote]

Having to use lube every time because you jackhammer your wife is not normal sexual behavior. Guarantee this guy is thinking of someone else maybe even male. [/quote]

I thought the exact same thing. Most men want a woman who is turned on - that’s a huge part of it. This man is not into women. [/quote]

Is this a new thing now? Why are so many men quick to say another man isn't into women. That's just bizarre. [/quote]

It’s become an “acceptable” way for men and women to express bigoted homophobia. Relationship problem? Can’t be you. It must be the insidious gays.[/quote]

I wouldn’t view it as “he’s not into women, therefore he must be gay.” There are a lot of men, maybe even the majority of men, who are straight but really don’t LIKE women. They don’t love women, they don’t like them, they don’t have female friends or relationships, they don’t think of women as equals or even fully formed human beings and people. That’s what I think of when I think of a man like OP’s husband and so many more. [/quote]

Yeah, gays are people. The sort of situation being described here, where a man doesn't care about his partner's pleasure or arousal status or consent is about dehumanizing women. She's not a person, she's an object expected to provide a service.

He's not gay, or he'd be dehumanizing a man the same way.[/quote]

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