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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The only way I see that living with someone can be used as a financial lever is if the person is receiving alimony. Most agreements specify that once they are living with someone else or married, the alimony stops. I imagine that this is the sort of thing where the recipient of alimony has to go to court and complain about no longer getting her monthly check. She'd then be at the court's mercy as to whether she has to prove she's not living with someone or if the payer of alimony has to prove that she is cohabitating. Personally, if I were the payer and had enough tidbits of evidence to call it into question, I'd stop paying and wait for her to spend the money on a lawyer to try and enforce the agreement. But then again, I think that alimony is total bullshit, especially when the recipient refused to work while married and won't bother to get a job upon divorce. [/quote] "...the person who had the affiar should pay." Amen to that. Bring back at fault divorces. Of course, under project 2025 we may no longer HAVE divorces.... [/quote] Oof. Has anyone had success at leveraging guilt or wanting to have nice things said about them re an affair to get more $ for the kids? I don’t need it for myself but AP seems like a gold digger and pushing for a baby. [/quote]
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