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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds great! You’ve managed to bring yourselves closer and find more sexual fulfillment together, not separately. I’ve known plenty of couples who seem to do as well or better in the lifestyle than they were before. Just make sure you always have complete open communication. [/quote]

Wondering genuinely whether clubs like this require testing and people have to make test results available to each other. DCUM has a fair share of "Go away, don't mention STDs, no one cares" lurkers who hate this topic, but it does actually matter. I'm really not questioning or judging the existence of the clubs etc., but wondering how participants can feel they can relax enough, if they don't have some assurance about basic sexual health. [/quote]

PP. Yes, many events and some clubs have stringent expectations about recent testing and/or condom use. But yes, there are quite a few where this isn’t necessary and TBH protection is neither as uniform nor as widespread as I personally would think wise.

And to the poster who seemed to doubt about the existence of lifestyle clubs - these are a real thing and they’re hardly a secret. Plenty of them can be found in Google Maps searches. They don’t want to be shamed or hidden, they just want to be selective for people who want to use their services, not just those with prurient interest in them. [/quote]This area is practically the capital of the country for swinging and BDSM clubs.  [/quote]

Can you recommend couple “elite” clubs with STD testing ? Single very good looking 40s F here interested in BDSM. [/quote]

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