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I judge those who are so quick to ostracize others on information received. They can't possibly know the whole story.

But then DCUM is never a good place to get mature opinions on cheating. Apparently it's worse than mass murder. No one ever discusses other forms of spousal betrayal (financial, emotional neglect, various forms of abuse) that may all lead to actual physical cheating on the part of the victim. There may be arrangements between spouses you don't know about.

I don't judge and I try to keep an open mind. 
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Thank you, this is the same mind frame I am coming from.  I don't judge the friend not knowing 100% what's going on, I do judge the "lover" because of things done/said that were traumatic for me and my kids.  Hence this person is out of my circle. But my friend needs to know why and I need to discuss this or the toxic buildup will destroy the friendship anyway but in a more painful way. [/quote]

Does your friend know about the douchey thing her supposed partner did? Could you bring this up in conversation somehow  casually?” Like “have you noticed anything off with Joe recently? He did such and so in front of the kids”
She may not know what kind of person he is  . She deserves to know[/quote]

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