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Reply to "Better to be a never-married single mom or divorced single mom?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a single mom and have not faced any stigma, nor has my children. Buy we live in a major city rather than some small town or in the Deep South. I’ve never felt any shame. [/quote] I think your race and income also matters here. I'm a single mom by choice (as in, I had the baby by myself using a sperm donor) and I feel proud of that choice, but I'm white and UMC. If I got pregnant with a boyfriend, were Black, and we broke up before the baby was born, I think I'd have different factors to think through. It's not fair at all, but that's the landscape. I don't know what OP's situation is.[/quote] This is partly what kept me from having a child on my own as a single professional Black woman. [/quote]
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