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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are many 'exclusive', ie excluding, groups within the college experience. The business club culture is brutal, acceptance often driven by 'connections', athletic cliques at certain schools drive the social structure, clubbing w/bottle service thats accessible only by those with $$$. I am not a big fan of sororities, but I don't get the hate for a voluntary, women-centered social structure that provides a sense of belonging for those who choose to join. In college, i joined a number of groups, had a job and even joined a sorority (was not my plan bc never thought of myself as a 'sorority' girl but met nice girls who encouraged me and made me reassess my own bias). I think college is about academic, social, and emotional growth. Kids will explore, assess, have disappointments, build resilience, and eventually find their way. Rush is tough, but the job search is another impending world of judgenent and rejection kids will ultimately face...[/quote] Okay sure but a job is going to pay you instead of you having to pay it. I was not in a sorority but I spent a lot of time one summer with some tophouse sorority girls and I thought there was a big cost to it as well in addition to just the money. There was a huge percentage of eating disorders in the community. And a huge amount of judgment going on based on who was in what sorority or fraternity who they would date who they wouldn't date what it said about this person or that person. I was impressed with the rigidity of it all.[/quote]
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