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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's a big difference between having/using SM and being an exhibitionist. OP certainly shouldn't discount anyone w/ an Instagram/TikTok account. But I would run from someone posting 5x/day. That person is self-obsessed, likely insecure, looking for validation, maybe a narcissist, and frankly needs to get a life. Posting on Instagram occasionally is very different than the person constantly posting in ways to get people to think their life is perfect/interesting or to get people to say how hot/beautiful they are. Despite what some on here are saying (likely because they engage in this behavior) not everyone does this -- not even all attractive young women. Some still have some dignity, humility, and respect for themselves-- believe it or not. [/quote]

I think you are too judgmental.  I rarely post on social media, like maybe once a year, but I have a good friend who posts 5x/day.  I sometimes silence her posts because I find them annoying, but I still like and respect her.  She's super involved in the community, volunteers, donates, shows up for friends when someone is sick, always asks about me and my family, etc.  She's outgoing and public, and I am quiet and discreet, but I think she's a better person overall than me. [/quote]

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