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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ I think when you have that it is possible to get through something like a midlife affair—but when you didn’t have it and “settled” it’s harder. I also think a lot of women that cheat are ones that settled and are looking for exit affairs which isn’t the same motive as men. [/quote]
This is interesting. I’m one of those who settled and have never had an emotional connection/love with DH. I would not care in the slightest if he cheated, it wouldn’t break my heart because I’m not emotionally connected to him. [/quote]

Would you cheat? Why/why not? And do you think your DH would care?[/quote]
Neither of us has ever cheated (we've been married for 20+ years) - at least I know I haven't and have never seen any signs of cheating on DH's end.
At some point, I accepted that I will never have any deep connection with anybody because my personality is so unique and nobody just feels close enough. And if I don't have a deep connection and love with anybody else, why would I cheat? I think DH would care because he appears to love me in his own way, it's just not mutual. 
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