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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I am with you on everything except the idea that this lady is being “forced upon” your son. Reality is that both you and your exH have moved on, and exH is appropriately emphasizing to your son that he (exH) is an adult allowed to make decisions about his life not preserve in amber the life that is over. Honestly that is important for your son to comprehend and deal with. You got divorced and this is how it goes. [b]Your exDH is correct that if he is serious about this lady, who had nothing to do with the dissolution of your marriage, then son needs to accept her as part of his dad’s and also by extension, son’s life.

There are more and less forceful ways to do that but your son does need to make the adjustment, sorry to say [/b] [/quote]

You are impressively wrong. Not OP.[/quote]

OP here - yea, that poster is delusional thinking it’s all cheeky-pooky once she becomes a wife. The dudes like my exH are very experienced using women. Our divorce decree requires him to offer any next wife a prenup AND share it with his son’s legal representative. There is a corporate control issue involved that I cannot describe without avoiding sharing too much detail here.

I strongly suggest his AP (that he cheated on for 5 years during our marriage) very much disliked the offered prenup which is why they split up shortly after his divorce. She was a money hungry wh..e, slept with him to get consulting contracts at work. He was the officer sitting on the contracts.

If any woman thinks she can deep her claws in millions with an easy in modern corporate America, she’s very wrong.

The new GF barely speaks English, is very poor and has two kids. She’ll take anything. [/quote]

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