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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would consider fostering older children [/quote] Pp here. I say this as someone who has done ivf in my thirties and have older kids but also a surprise baby at 45. Physically younger kids are very demanding. 2-5 year olds need constant physical play. Also family help is really important. You need breaks and you need a village. Nannies really aren’t enough. I think at my age I could foster an 8-12 yo and really do right by them and myself without burning out completely. Obviously fostering can be heartbreaking but frankly so can parenting. The whole point is putting your heart in the hands of careless little people. Anyway just my two cents. [/quote]
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