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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Not sure how this thread was bumped up. I’m at the airport right now heading out for a trip and still feels really hard when I have to leave my kids. This thread and the responses have been really helpful to remind me to be grateful for what I have. At least 90 percent of the responses told me to stick it out, focus on quality over quantity and manage the money wisely. I even appreciated the responses that were mean-spirited or the ones that told me I’m making a huge mistake and should quit my job. I agree there are pluses and minuses for all situations. Here, I have work travel and it wears me out and gives me a lot of guilt. On the plus side, I get paid very well and my kids are doing well. I agree with the prior poster who said there is no substitute for mom. That’s why I’m home 80 percent of the time every month. I don’t believe making major life decisions based on inchoate fears something going wrong, fleeting feelings, or creating binary all-or-nothing decisions. I’ve instead tried to use logic and reason to try to reach the right decision here, which is to stick this out, invest wisely, and be in a position to help my kids and hopefully grandkids financially. I’m also trying to be vigilant about my health so I can be around for them a long time. I try to remain extremely attuned to my kids development and well being. I try to manage any risk of me not being there 100 percent of the time and have a number of strategies. I pray a lot even though I’m not a religious person. I have created a whole support system for my kids. I’m grateful for what I have and I am trying to multiply my blessings for others. I hope that I look back one day and am proud of these decisions I made. [/quote]
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