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Reply to "If you are a mistress, do you feel ANY guilt?"
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[quote=Anonymous]My DH's AP did not care. I don't think she held anything against me, I just think she wanted what she wanted. For awhile, I had some misplaced anger against her, but let's get real. It would have been her or someone else. As far as guilt, remorse, etc.? We are way harder one women APs than on men or even DH's who cheat. I've learned not to focus on the character, morals, etc. of the person who cheated with my DH. I don't have to live with her, and she is not a role model to my children. I do not care if she is happy, sad, regretful, etc.--she is simply gone from our lives and the shot time I spent focusing on her as a villain, or homewrecker, fueled my trauma. I spoke with a wise family member who stated that if I wanted to save my marriage (and wasn't sure that I did or that everyone should) I needed to put my energy toward that or some other woman could be raising my kids 50% of the time. DH and I have moved on but it took time and effort. [/quote]
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