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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I explained that Mom could likely afford all this herself. I explained that we should look for a place a little cheaper than where sister lives. I said I'd visit as much as I can to help out. [/quote] Your sister is willing to take on the extra work of dealing with your mom as she ages nearby. All she is asking is for a bit of financial help. That seems reasonable to me. You would likely spend a lot more if you must travel to her. Flights are not cheap, especially when something happens and you need to hop on the next flight in 4 hours to get there. I'd find a way to help out, so that your mom is better cared for (hard to do remote without someone nearby unless you pay to put them in a CCRC and it doesn't seem like any of you could afford that) [/quote]
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