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Reply to "“My friends warned me not to marry a white woman”"
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[quote=Anonymous]I am wondering about the sudden shift and whether he has had a cultural "awakening" or something like that where now he is questioning the marriage as a result of his "new found" awareness of colonialism and oppression. It sounds like when you met him he was a good match and liberal/feminist as you said but now he's become far left/"woke" etc. Did something change in his social circle, media consumption, etc? Maybe he just needs to work through some anger or complicated feelings about race/ethnicity--however, he should be honest about that with you and if there's anger there he needs to not take it out on you specifically. From this lens, he's displacing anger about oppression onto you. In which case, it's not really about how much you should be cleaning.[/quote]
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