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[quote=Anonymous][b]Part of it is he also generally lives on a different timeline than me. I'm more of a "doer". Like, I will do things quickly or really focus on do a bunch of stuff, whereas he's fine with taking his time. When he executes on things, he does it well, so I'll give him that. But I often have to wait around for a while before he actually does it.[/b] No one has focused on this. OP, you can't dictate that he live by your timeline. There are some repairs that need to be done immediately, because they will cause damage to the house or are dangerous. Other than that, it's perfectly fine that he takes his time as long as he does it well (and you said that he does). You do need ot have a conversation about splitting up repair duties, and part of that is you being OK that something takes more time than you'd like. If you are doing repairs simply because you don't like his timeline, then that's on you. Any resentment you feel is self-inflicted. [/quote]
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