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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is there ever any discussion of him spending the night outside of the house?  Is he claiming he is working?  Why don’t you have his schedule ahead of time?

None of this makes sense to me.[/quote]

He has a generally usual schedule, which occasionally includes a later shift, but not always. It’s usually on one specific day and he has held to that, but the actual time seems to flex. Like I would expect him home around midnight based on what his shift “should” be, but he is coming home at 2-4am.

In the spirit of 180 and dropping the drama in the house, I have stopped asking for his schedule as it always ends in an argument or him being nasty to me. I just always assume I am taking care of kid. It’s easier on me and I love hanging with her anyway. he always seems to be “working”, even on his days off. [/quote]

So he came home in the morning way after 4 am and you just… said nothing?

I think that’s beyond the 180.[/quote]

How so? Isn’t the point to not beg, question, engage, etc. I knew he’d be home late, it’s in his hands how late. If I ask, I’m crazy because *of course* he was at work and I can’t say or prove otherwise. [/quote]

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