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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are so many ok with their kids having toktok?[/quote]

Yeah, I would be not thrilled if my 13 year old went to a party where the parents were encouraging posting tiktok dances wtf.[/quote]

This obsession of turning your CHILDREN into adults at 9-10 is so wrong.  [/quote]
Keep up, this thread is about 13 year olds not 9-10 year olds. Your obsession with teenagers remaining in a child like state is creepy and gives pedo vibes. [/quote]

We're creepy because we want our kids to be kids? That's a new one.[/quote]
You are creepy because you pop up in every thread about teen girls specifically talking about how they need to stay “kids”, even when what is being discussed is age and developmentally appropriate. There is definitely something off about not understanding that a teenager is going to trend toward more adult interests/styles, etc. than an elementary school aged child. [/quote]

Oh the horror that I want my kid to act like a kid and not automatically jump to teen like or adult like interests. Are you saying that there is something wrong with kids/ young teens who still have kid interests?[/quote]
I actually don’t think you have tween/teen girls, you just like to troll on DCUM about how they should stay “kids”. Your posting style is distinct and you are all over threads related to tween/teen girls repeating your mantra that they should stay “kids”. And yes, as the parent of actual tween/teen girls, I find that creepy AF.[/quote]

Nope, must be someone else. But, I do stand by kids should be kids as long as they can [/quote]
🙄 Sure it’s not you. “Kids should be kids” is your generic mantra that never acknowledges that childhood is a spectrum. A 6 year old is different from a 10 year old who is different from a 14 year old. But since you’re a troll you never engage past your mantra.[/quote]

Of course kids should be kids, I don't know why anyone would debate that or disagree. And yes, there are differences and stages in childhood, but there is also such a thing as kids growing up too fast or acting older than they should.[/quote]

What are you objecting to in this thread? Going out to eat is too grown up? Making bracelets? Tie dying shirts? Scavenger hunts? Dave & Busters?  What are you even talking about? Nobody is suggesting doing shots at a bar, going on a group date, getting Botox, tattoos, etc. What is too adult in here?[/quote]

Nothing is too adult, but suggesting fortnite and tiktok at 13 is not what I'd want my kids to be doing. Also, there was a poster making fun of teens acting child like or child like suggestions.[/quote]
Suggesting construction paper and crayons for teens is patently absurd. Other than that there has not been an age inappropriate suggestion. You may not like TikTok or Fortnite but it’s beyond naive (or just your perspective based on not actually having teens) to think those aren’t things the majority of 13 year olds use. [/quote]

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