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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I remember I had a personal trainer years ago. I was 40 and done having kids and wanted to get back in shape. He was 23. And randomly without any prompting or been having a discussion that made any sense to bring it up told me he didn’t want kids and had a vasectomy. He apparently had a g/f and said they talked about it. All I could think about is ok-but like what if you don’t end up staying with this g/f and meeting someone you do in fact want to have kids with. Seems so so young to make such a permanent decision. I feel like the changes in your /wants needs that happen between young twenties and early thirties are pretty vast. [/quote]
Or we could just trust people when they say they don't want children? Crazy concept, but not everyone wants kids, not everyone changes their mind, and some people know very early on that they don't want them. There isn't anything wrong with them, and making that decision for their own health and future is none of your business. [/quote]

Most people have no idea what they want when they are young. Sure some probably never change their view on certain things but you can still not want something and wait on a permanent (obviously you can reverse but it’s not a small inexpensive thing to do so) surgery. Having a medicinal procedure at a young age seems…extreme.[/quote]

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