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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am DH who doesn't want to be home early because I dislike my wife so much. Just seeing her damn face gives me anxiety. But she is cheaper to keep. We have come to an agreement that work for us as far as the kids and their schedule. I do all the pick up drop off birthdays breakfast getting ready for school. This is great for me because it avoids me having to interact with her or see her much. I am happy when around my kids but miserable around my wife. And let me say it again she is cheaper to keep than divorce. It sucks but it is what it is. Perhaps when I have the urge to have an affair I'll file for divorce before that comes and will have to live with the financial cost[/quote]

I am still married and I have a couple of friends who are divorced and I wonder if this man is one of them. And from talking to other husbands this is not uncommon. I have been married for 25 years and we have had our ups and down, but we work very hard to tolerate respect and love one another. However I am not going to criticize men like this poster. I know someone are taking his wifes side and understand their view. My wife isn't the easiest person, we both equally share chores, communicate and do everything necessary to make our marriage work. I honestly can say that another man would have probably left. It's easy to criticize from far away when someone comes so strongly like this and profess his dislike for his wife. [/quote]

Not sure how men reach the conclusion that because they dislike their wives, it’s ok to nope out of parenting responsibilities … [/quote]

Not sure either.  But these are the same guys that will nope out of parenting responsibilities with the inevitable divorce, too.

Not every guy.  But the ones who do suck.[/quote]

My mother used to tell us that our dad wasn't a responsible parent. Every criticism of our late dad was about him being an irresponsible parent. She never told us actually anything wrong about him as a husband. A few years post divorce we understood exactly why she kept using parental responsibility as a scapegoat and a lie. Our dad was actually a great father, our mother was and still is a narcissist. She made up so many lies. So don't discount the mothers who use their children as a tool. Telling a father he isn't doing what is supposed to do as a dad is a powerful tool and most men care about their children.[/quote]

Stop being ungrateful. Your mother probably did all the hard work rasing you while your dad lived his life. I hope your mother is living her life now hopefully f**g younger men.[/quote]

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